After decades of frustration looking for a decent romantic relationships, now I do nothing but a lot of casual sex and I don’t feel bad about any of it because I remember how utterly frustrating and humiliating looking for romance was and it’s negative affect on my overall life and attitude. I miss romantic relationships and still want one but I don’t feel frustrated and that makes it worth it. If it happens great, otherwise I don’t care one iota. I’m not going back to that pathetic state of feeling like I have to be something per the rules of dating set by our commercial culture. It also frees me from the scourge of negative emotions associated with online dating…I do online dating but I get enough casual fun from it to the point where all the bad experiences have no impact on my psyche.

I accomplish this by having sex only as a woman instead of a man and that made it A LOT easier- about 250x, i calculated it. I also have no interest in romance with a man as a woman and that makes it really easy!