Agree with everything you say. But I still rather watch porn and have meaningless one night stands vs being in a toxic or boring relationship, which is 99% of what’s available to me. I’m done with wasting my time and money on the pursuit of romance. I have a fucking amazing life and I don’t need regular dating bringing me down — Ie with having to deal with all the baggage from people who are emotionally damaged from too much consumerism, fashion advertising, and porn.

I used to hate porn and kink, now I love it, once I stop chasing this fantasy called romance. Some people get lucky and get romance, most people don’t. And I’m not ashamed to admit it, I’m proud to have discovered freedom. I had to change my sex to do it, but it’s much better than being a loser guy searching for a fantasy.