Both sexes have such problems and both are miserable and lonely to a large extent. I don’t know what’s going on here, but I’m sure our culture is at fault. When I became a woman, it’s was SO much easier hooking up with guys as a woman vs vice versa-250x easier…I calculated it! Women have it SO much easier then men when it comes to just sex. It’s still not easy, but it’s still a lot easier. When it comes to romance I think both sides are equally screwed (or not..no pun intended). What are the odds that you are both physically attracted to each other and have a soul connection, and can tolerate each other’s daily way of living. Almost zero! That’s why I became a woman, at least I could have A LOT more fun and almost zero frustration (not looking for romance, it’s a fairy tale programmed into us)