Having been involved in both corporate and sex work/kink/bdsm myself, I found that people are just people across all types of work and demographics. But the people in sex work/kink/bdsm tend to be more fun, honest, supportive etc vs the corporate world where people have more of a tendency to be dead inside and much less honest.

I was very corporate, clean, and serious and didn’t respect people in the “Underworld” until I just couldn’t stand being in that dead world and I found the “underworld” to be what was real.

The world is seriously upside down.

When I’m a man (I’m a woman about 50% of the time) I strongly value my relationship with my dom, it’s so much more real and intimate and it’s not subject to the bullshit trappings of straight dating which I can’t stand.