How about we please start by you acknowledging a single thing I said about what men are going through. One thing, please.

Regarding your request that men call out other men: yes good point i think they should. And men do, and it rarely makes any difference. A lot of men don’t like the way other men treat women, but there is nothing they can do about it. Asking other men to change their behavior almost never works. And how do you think it makes all the decent men feel when so often they see so many asshole men getting women, and these women cry on the decent men’s shoulders for emotional support, yet keep on dating the asshole guy and keep trying to lean on their shoulder? This happens all the time, and it’s tiring and hurtful, and causes immeasurable damage to our society. (Scott Galloway describes this well)

And yes, men do the same thing, stick with asshole women.

There are raging assholes on both sides who blame it on the opposite sex.