I agree with your sentiment that many trans folks are driving their agenda perhaps a bit too far in that they don’t take non-trans folks perspective (eg going overboard on the pronouns) . I’ve experienced it myself and it was really nasty, and I was frustrated and irritated.

Your statement that they are mentally ill, made me stop reading, however. Your responding to the confusing zeal of an oppressed minority with hate instead of the desire to understand a fellow human, is not attractive. Perhaps you are oppressed as well in some other way.