I been to many orgies and group sex sessions. There are so many variations depending on the people…group sex is like pizza, you can’t describe it to somebody who’s never tried it ..and you have to try it a few times yourself.
The short of it is that it wasn’t as fun as I imagined sexually. I wasn’t attracted to most of the people, sometimes I wasn’t giving, other times I had gross guys chasing me who wouldn’t leave me alone and I had to leave, other times they weren’t interested in me.
Overall it was a fun experience, mostly chatting with folks and discovering the scene (being trans gives me a little edge because I’m usually more unique than others - and this also makes it a challenge). I would recommend it for anybody interested…no amount of online research will give you a flavor, you must taste it a few times.
It’s also hard finding the right group…so many variations.