I found most people I’ve dated were not at all interested in anything really fun and cool to talk about and they had zero interest in all the real amazing things I’ve done in my life or talking about anything really cool and unique. They wanted somebody was going to be stable, didn’t go out and do much, a would be around to cook dinner and do that kind of simple stuff. It was really frustrating so I decided to just quit all that dating stuff and just have sex.

So although I agree with a lot of what you say in theory, the reality is people don’t really want what they say they want. Or they just can’t handle it and simply want somebody who is good looking, good in bed, and doesn’t say much.