I live as both a man and a woman depending on the situation. But i live mostly as a woman and work mostly as a man - I guess I have the benefit of both. It’s feels normal to me because my perception of how men behave doesn’t appear normal to me. Maybe it’s normal for prehistoric days or Roman times, but not in our modern times which requires a much more sophisticated mindset.

I present as a woman because it’s just a lot more fun and I get a lot more attention. Not because I feel compelled to be a woman. But I do feel compelled to feel like I matter to people and I want to feel sexy. Can’t do that as a man for some reason even thigh I would rather do that.

Or would I? Who knows, gender is so complex, it’s the essence of our being. I wonder how much our twisted, upside-down, ruthlessness competitive global society has to do with our perceptions and choice about gender vs our internal desires. Probably a combination of both and it varies by the person and the environment.

Thanks for sharing!