I transitioned M2F precisely because I was invisible as man and could only attract a few boring and judgmental women. I have many characteristics of “transmaxxing” but not all the characteristics. For me, it was a gradual process and after a while I just didn’t care why decent women weren’t into me. I was just A LOT happier being a woman because people liked me SO much better. I even calculated that it’s 250x easier for me to get a date or sex as a woman. I just don’t care why, any more than I care why I don’t like shellfish and much rather eat chicken.

Why do people like me better as a woman? I don’t really know and it doesn’t really matter. Maybe it’s because I’m more flashy as a woman—because I’m more interested in woman’s clothes than men’s clothes. Maybe because my bubbly and emotional personality fits being a woman better to most people. Maybe because it makes me stand out.

An important lesson in life…just go with what works.

I even wrote a book about it which is now a musical I’m performing in NYC. https://www.mariakonner.com/new-book