And still gets presented as weak or more likely, irrelevant and invisible.

I want to believe woman want good men. And it’s true for some and not for others (thus it’s about the stats). Being M2F trans, and an entertainer meeting thousand of people. I see both sides. There are so many good men who are alone vs assholes who aren’t, and it’s very clear to me that a huge percentage of women wouldn’t know a good guy from a worm.