I was a straight guy who CHOSE to be M to F trans and sleep mostly with men. I wasn’t attracted to men at all until I CHOSE to be a woman. We all make choices. We choose to act. In my case I CHOSE to be a woman because the alternative, being a lonely guy that for some reason few women wanted was just not a good choice from what was available to me.

In today’s age, why does choice matter? I think it’s interesting to understand somebody or yourself. But it should have nothing to do with judging somebody. Life choices are often difficult, and kudos to anybody who is doing what they want to do, both for those who don’t choose and those who do. Living a full life takes courage, and it’s worth it.