I’m M2F trans and have dated both men and women. In my experience it is 250x easier to get dates being a women dating men vs the opposite. This is empirical data, not theoretical. Men are just much simpler and more straightforward.

Now, when it comes to romance, that is a whole different situation the premise these days is romance doesn’t mean anything without sex first. That’s not my preference, but that’s the reality of the way. Most people must be very physically attracted to you right out of the box otherwise there will be no interest in 99% of the cases.