I’ve been both a man and a woman (I’m a woman now). Both sexes have it hard for different reasons - we each have different powers and different weaknesses. There is a tendency for women to need to be more subtle and use their sexual power because women have less power in so many other ways. When I was a man I was largely unaware of these differences and even my own behavior. I was eviscerated in the dating scene for reasons that were only partly my fault. I felt I wasn’t even given a chance to learn and be a better person.

Now I have a lot more fun, and have much more power socially. I can’t even conceive ever going back to the frustrations of being a man. Something very few women understand and almost none have any desire to learn more about men. And I can assert this from a huge amount of personal experience on both sides of the aisle and with peers from both sides.