See my comment

Harm = consequences of bashing men without even thinking or caring about how the decent men feel about seeing post after post about this same thing over and over, with almost nothing positive other than how a “good” man should behave, again enforcing over and over that men are basically shit unless they follow very specific rules all of which are really obvious to the many decent men out there.

The bottom line is that dating and people in general are shit. This applies to BOTH sexes. And yes, men are probably worse, and yes women are in more danger. Yet the man bashing and lack of ANY empathy or understanding of good men is sad.

I’ve dated both men and women, and I personally have not found nearly the level of difference that is so often written about. And for me personally, men treat me MUCH better than women ever did when I was a man.