That’s why I became a woman. The humiliation of dating (when I was a man) was too much to bear. Like you said, I could work hard at anything else and get and ROI… but not dating.

By becoming a woman and switching to casual sex (which I only feel comfortable doing as a woman) utterly changed my life for the better. Before Covid i could hook up several times a month easily, often more, either online or having a lot of fun just going out to the clubs, every time I went out. Instead of being invisible and having a good date once every 5 years if I was lucky.

In my experience, romance is largely dead. Sadly, but I rather have fun in the debauchery of the real work vs living in the fantasy of the romantic dream world.