There are people you have romance with and there are people you just fuck. A lot of men just want to fuck, many women too. So if you get along with somebody at a personal level, that’s not somebody you want to just fuck and thus there is no dating opportunity.

In the city where I live, San Francisco, romance is a joke, you’re laughed at. Fuck first and if that works out, maybe romance. I used to focus on romance until I realized how totally out of sync I was with reality. It was frustrating but there wasn’t much I could do about it. Now I’m a lot happier I’m getting laid a lot more and I just don’t give a shit, and I’m a lot less frustrated and a lot happier. I prefer to have romance but that’s not real, that’s something that might happen but that’s in gods hands there’s really not much you can do about it.