This is all obvious to a decent person male or female. The fundamental problem is obvious and eclipses all of these kinds of posts about when men and women really wants. For most people, these are their priorities:
1) Somebody who is really good looking
2) Great in bed
3) Can afford nice things, wealthy would be nice.

Everything else is secondary, and people will twist reality on these other secondary factors so they match with somebody who has those top three.