Yea, the whole online thing (prob 90%+ of dating these days) is such a humiliating and horrible experience, I went M2F trans and date men now. I used to meet so many guys at a trans club Divas in SF, now all such clubs are pretty much gone. So I’m stuck with online dating and it’s total crap, even for trans. There are no filters, those who came to a trans club, were motivated, courageous, and real.